Hopes and Fears

If you’re a Dover student of the past or the present, you definitely want to read this post. If you aren’t, I invite you to read it anyway, but you may miss some of the complexities of the topic.

I have dedicated my free time in the last few months to speaking out against Dover High School’s major problems. I’ve written about some of these problems in the past on the blog, but I haven’t spoken about some aspects. To catch everyone up, these are the two problems:

  1. Extracurricular activities are in a sad state of affairs. Although there are many successful activities right now, others are failing for two different reasons. Students seem to have no interest in several of the activities, but there are other activities that have a disgusting and unacceptable problem; many club advisors aren’t holding meetings or even trying to have a club. Even worse, no one is making them - there’s very limited oversight.
  2. Student behavioral problems are rampant. That is to say, everything changed this year after the development of local “gangs”. There are constant fights and rowdiness in school, especially in the lunchrooms. In my opinion, the school administration hasn’t taken the necessary zero-tolerance policy toward this ridiculous behavior.

I’ve been working my heart out on both of these problems. Let me explain the recent developments on this front.

After Dover’s Superintendent and Assistant Superintendent found the money to hold our traditional spring assembly, the Leadership Rally, Student Council’s new committee, Save Our School (SOS), set its sights toward the first problem I listed. We developed a list of recommendations to send to Administration to address the problem of advisors who simply aren’t doing their jobs. Administration took those suggestions into a meeting with the advisors, but from what I’ve heard, the main problem isn’t solved. There is no clear authority enforcing the rules for advisors, and until that is made clear, I won’t rest.

Dealing with the second problem is much harder. I attended my first Board of Education meeting this last Tuesday night in order to gain approval for a new club for the high school; this new club, the Green Team, plans to raise awareness about climate change and make the community greener. I’m very jealous that I won’t be able to participate in this noble effort. However, I digress.

At the Board of Education meeting, one of the members asked me if I have any perspective or opinions on the behavioral issues in the High School. Needless to say, I was more than happy to tell the Board how I felt. I explained the emergence of these “gangs”, who’s involved, and why I think they’re able to succeed in Dover High School - the lack of punishment.

I can’t singlehandedly change the direction that Dover is heading, that’s impossible. However, while I’m still here and able to have my voice heard - able to make a difference - I’ll try. Thus far, I think SOS has been successful in its efforts. We’re raising the awareness of the highest authorities in the school district that there is a palpable problem here and who is failing to respond. In response to my perspective, I’ve been given some deeply regrettable news.

After double-checking that I’m allowed to publish this development, I’m now able to divulge that a massive and sophisticated camera system will soon be installed in Dover High School. Things have gotten so bad that it’s now necessary to constantly monitor students. In addition to this truly depressing news, it was made public today that one of Dover’s greatest, youngest, and most popular teachers will not be coming back to Dover in September. I’m not in the position to say whether or not this has anything to do with Administration’s failure to respond to these two problems, but I’m willing to place a bet.

I have great hopes for the future of my high school. It’s natural to think that things will get better from year to year, that newer students will have more opportunities to grown and learn in school. However, right now, this isn’t the case; things are getting worse. My fears for the future of Dover High School are drowning out my hopes.

Can someone throw Dover a life preserver?

If you’re a Dover student reading this post, I want to hear from you. Please find a way to talk to me and tell me what you think about these problems. Anything you can offer helps.

I Miss Blogging

Hello readers! It’s been a long time, too long. Life got busy for me. I went through a few AP exams and have been studying non-stop. Luckily, I’m back now.

You may have noticed that I changed the tagline at the top of the blog. I am, in fact, a student in transition. This blog was founded to capture my college admissions experience, and I have a few more College Admissions posts kicking around in my head. I’ll put them to virtual paper and then organize the College Admissions page. I plan on leaving the page on the navigation at the top of the site as a resource for students going through the same hell experience I just emerged from.

Now that the first goal of my blog is accomplished, I don’t think I need another one. I’ll keep writing about the end of my time at Dover High School, my summer employment, and my transition to Boston. That sounds interesting, doesn’t it?

Let me know what you think. And, by the way, how are you?

Finding Happiness

I just read one of the greatest blog posts ever, linked to by @Pistachio, and felt that I had to share it. It’s titled Let Me Save You $40: Here’s How to Be Happy. Its approach to happiness is so pragmatic that it’s shocking. Go ahead, take three minutes and give it a read.

My favorite part? I agree with Laura (Pistachio):

There are 7 billion people on the world. You can afford to not hang out with that one again.

It’ll make sense soon, I promise.

Admissions Gestures

I’ve been taking some time away from my “online presence” to tend to some real life stuff that’s dominating my world. Believe me, I miss it; limiting my blogging, twitter, RSS, and podcast time is difficult at best. I feel so disconnected.

I’ll be taking a few more days off, but until then, I have a few thoughts about experiences with admissions offices.

I got mail from Lafayette College and RPI last week. The contents of the mail typifies my overall experience with the schools. RPI sent me a very pretty box containing an object that I’d really lost interest in - the Rensselaer Medal. After all this time, I finally received the physical object that accompanies the scholarship I received there; to be honest with you, it isn’t all that impressive. It’s more like the Rensselaer keychain than anything else and it feels too hoity-toity for my taste, much like the entire RPI experience from the mouthes of their admissions officers.

A complete contrast, Lafayette College sent me a letter containing this:

Thank you for notifying us of your decision to withdraw your application for admission to Lafayette College.

Best wishes for a successful conclusion to your senior year. If we can be of assistance to you at any time, please do not hesitate to contact me or any other member of the admissions staff.

After spending a considerable amount of time on the Lafayette campus and more time corresponding with the school’s admissions office, I really believe their offer of help.

Always - it’s all about the brand.

Deus Ex Machina

Big news in the development of the Dover Dilemma - I did it.

Yes, I’ve done it.

Last Wednesday (8 days ago), I attended a meeting of the “Health and Wellness” committee, a Board of Education committee. I’ve been attending these meetings as a representative of the Student Council for a few months now, and I decided to finally leverage my presence there to bring about some good.

As we were speaking about the “health and wellness” of the high school, I matter-of-factly mentioned how Administration didn’t have the funds for our routine spring leadership assembly and that I was struggling to create an alternative assembly for the students. My (completely awesome) District Superintendent said he was shocked to hear this and rather ashamed.

He found us some money in the budget and the Student Council booked a speaker. I didn’t write about it earlier because I wanted the speaker to be booked before I celebrated any victory. I didn’t even tell my friends about it to not get their hopes up. It was hard keeping it all a secret, but worth it.

Although that’s only one of many problems plaguing Dover right now from my perspective, this solution is a good start in solving them.

Tufts

I just paid my deposit to enroll in the Class of 2012 at Tufts University (April 27, 2008 at 11:27 PM EST). Months of research, writing, paperwork, and blogging have finally come to this happy beginning.

Thank you for your help. I couldn’t have done it without you on this journey, no matter how small a role you played. Special awesome shout-outs to Kim for constantly pushing me and asking questions, and Chris for suggesting I start a blog about college admissions.